When you would rather put on some PJ’s and snuggle up to the bowl of Jelly Bellies than put on your lacey things and snuggle up to your tasty boy toy, you may suffer from dating dispassion. While an occasional night at home with Tivo is healthy, losing momentum in the romance department is not. So, to help launch lazy lovers back into action, here are five titillating ideas for dates, explanations of what you can expect during these dates and where to find them.
Sexy culinary adventures
So you want to spice up your love life? Have you tried cayenne pepper? Lovers new or old can whip up some fun with cooking diva Shani Delamor. Fortunately, this sensual chef’s passion for international cuisine and playful pleasure has made it possible for you to intensify your romance either in the privacy of your own home or in a secluded section of a restaurant near you. For the price of about $240 per couple (this varies depending on how many is in your group and where you chose to go) you can have your own sensual cooking experience and learn how legumes can lengthen your libido. If you don’t happen to be somewhere between NYC and Southern California (the two places these classes are offered) don’t be afraid to create some magic of your own without Shani. Dinner can still be a sexy experience if you just follow her advice.
“Keeping an open mind and trying new things is a HUGE turn on. Have fun! ” – Shani Delamo
Swinging in the city
Wanna get high? You’re in luck! You may have seen Sarah Jessica Parker do it on Sex and the City. Now it’s time to indulge in it yourself. Bring your man you met at adultfrienedfinder and your socks and get ready to experience the exhilarating pastime whose popularity is growing faster than a cheerleader who forgot to put her bloomers on. From the price of about $60.00, you and your flame can take a swing at this strength building activity, no matter what part of the country you’re in. The instructors don’t push you to do anything you’re not ready for, but if you think you’ve got what it takes and you want to try your hand at advanced aerial arts, you can fly high right over the Hudson…or in the Valley…or over the desert… Swing on over to www.trapezehigh.com for a list of classes near you.
A date as indulgent as you are
If you’re the kind of girl who loves to be given TLC from a stranger who does nothing but focus on making you feel good for a solid hour, and getting tipsy is equally as divine, why not indulge in both? Go to a spa bar like Body By Brooklyn for a totally alternative spa experience. Some of these beauty bars offer massage and similar treatments, while some of them, like the world wide Dashing Diva’s chain, or America’s The Beauty Bar offers more simple and affordable pampering like manicures and pedicures. There are even traveling services that will throw a cocktail and massage party at the location of your choice. These gems are typically found in or around big cities and the prices vary, but a simple online search can lead you to the service nearest you. It’s health and hedonism in one, and what’s not sexy about that?
Hey baby, wanna lift?
Dudes dig big machines, and you will too when you let them take you miles above the city, allowing you to see things from the new and romantic perspective a helicopter can give you. Give him a rush with this rare opportunity to defy gravity in a most unforgettable escape. Not only will he think you’re the coolest chick ever, he might even give in to going shopping with you on the next date. West coast residents may look into services like Elite Helicopter Tours, while landlocked honeys may be find Fly Midwest more convenient, but these flights can be taken pretty much anywhere there’s a view. You may even be able to find a dinner and champagne service in some of the more luxurious packages offered. Rides can cost in the $100’s per person for 15 – 40 minutes, so unless your doormat is made of hundred dollar bills, make sure to check the rates of the ride you want first. Better rates are sometimes offered for a higher number of passengers, so this just might make an ideal double date, as well. Whether you decide more is merrier, or that you and your boy would be better off flying solo, there’s a heli nearby that is certain to elevate your dating experience to a whole new level.
Because he likes it in the morning
So, you hate mornings? A lot of us do, that is, until we gulp down our first mimosa. We’ve already established that you’re not getting out much anymore, so it shouldn’t be difficult for you to get to bed early one Saturday night. This will allow you to get up early on Sunday, just in time to meet him for brunch. The fun thing about a late morning or mid-day date is, not only does it give you an excuse to be drunk by noon, but it’s a fun alternative to the same old dinner and drinks routine. It also maximizes your time with your cutie. Most neighborhoods have venues that offer Sunday brunches in varying styles, like live music feasts to help get your blood flowing to better digest all that champagne and hollandaise. If you live near the water, you may even have the option of making a splash out of the most important meal of the day by hopping a brunch cruise like those offered by Waterway Cruises or Majestic Princess Cruises. These usually lasts around 2 hours (from about 11-1) and vary in price according to location and path. If this is the route for you, make sure you book your tickets in advance and that you’re unlikely to sleep in late. Most services have a 48-hour cancellation policy.
The good news is, these are just a few of many ideas to help spice up that dying dating activity of yours. There are an unlimited number of alternative and exciting things to do. So grab your man and put down the Jelly Bellies, already. There’s a whole lot of sexy fun out there waiting for you!